Thoughts about Cambodia and Thailand

This was really a great trip.  One of the things I liked best was the variety of experiences.  It worked really well to learn about the culture and experience the countries and then go off on our own to sail.

Cambodia seems like a country still recovering from the Khmer Rouge.  Everyone is well aware of family members lost to this regime.  They talked about how the standard of living was better in Vietnam primarily because of the Khmer Rouge and then the civil war.  While the Cambodian people are held down by their current political situation, it felt like life for the average Cambodia was improving.  The Cambodian society seemed very resilient and I am hopeful that life continues to improve for them.  Of course visiting Angkor Wat and the other temples was a definite high point of the trip.

With the exception of the royal palace in Bangkok and white temple in Chiangrai we didn’t see a lot of amazing monuments in Thailand but we really got a good feeling for the culture and the people.  Generally the people seem happy.  They have to be very entrepreneurial to make ends meet.  They are very kind and friendly.  The Koh Chang island chain is beautiful.  We are glad that we didn’t rent a boat in Phuket because we think the experience would have been completely different, a lot more boats and a lot more touristy.

 

January 25, 2019 Siem Reap to Bangkok

We packed up this morning because we are flying to Bangkok this afternoon.  But before leaving we went to a floating village.  We drove over some really terrible dirt roads to a boat pier where we got on a long tail boat, a type of boat typical in Southeast Asia, which uses a common automotive engine connected to a long propeller shaft that allows the boat to power through fairly shallow water.  The driver took us to a village made up of houses built atop rafts.  This area of the river was home to about 1,400 people.  On the way we saw them moving a warehouse upstream by towing it with one of the long tailed boats.

We stopped at a house in the village to visit with a couple of locals.  Their house was built on a raft supported by oil drums.  An older couple lived there.  The woman was 63 and worked as a midwife.  She delivers 30-40 babies per year.  She showed us the kit she uses to deliver the baby.  It was very basic.  Three weeks ago she delivered her twenty first grandchild.  He was sleeping in a hammock. She was very vibrant and enthusiastic.  Her husband was 68 years old and had worked as a fisherman. He is retired now and their children help support them.  They currently have 10 children and 21 grandchildren.  When they were growing up, all 10 kids lived with them  in their small home. They had a wall of wedding pictures of all their children. Our tour company has a charitable foundation which helps provide basic necessities to indigenous populations throughout Cambodia and much of the world where they run tours. The foundation paid for this family to have a bathroom in their house.  To supplement their income they raise crocodiles in the back of the house which they sold for their leather.  As with this family, it seems that many other people have various odd jobs to supplement their income, sometimes tarantula hunting, sometimes having tourist at your home for lunch, sometimes raising crocodiles.  Meeting them was impactful because in the midst of what we might consider extreme poverty they seemed vibrant and satisfied with the very simple life they led.  A good lesson for all of us.

We returned to the dock, got back on the bus, and drove back over the terrible roads to a little town where we got on ox carts and rode around the village for 20 minutes or so.  Simple lives, seemingly happy people once again.

It was interesting and similar to other little villages we had seen throughout Cambodia.  It many cases it appeared that a prosperous family would live right next door to not so prosperous family.

After our ox cart ride we returned to the hotel where we had some lunch and then left for the airport.  We said a goodbye to Vuhta, a really excellent guide, boarded a plane and flew to Bangkok.

We were met in Bangkok by Lin, our guide for the rest of the trip, as well as another traveler on our trip.  We got stuck in terrible, terrible, Bangkok traffic.  I think it took us two hours to get to the hotel.  At the hotel Rick met the rest of our group for dinner and I was so tired I just went to bed!

January 24, 2019 Siem Reap

Today is the day for Angkor Wat.  We started out early to try to beat the crowds.

Angkor Wat is the largest temple complex in the world.  Originally constructed between 1113 and 1150 as a Hindu temple dedicated to the god Vishnu, it gradually transformed into a Buddhist temple towards the end of the 12th century.  It was built by the Khmer King Suryavarman II, possibly as his funerary temple.  The temple is the pinnacle of the high classical style of Khmer architecture.  It has become the symbol of Cambodia, appearing on its national flag.  It is classified as a mountain temple because it has three tiers.  The temple we had seen the day before, the temple of Banteay Srei, is a flat temple, all on one level.  We visited all three tiers.  There were many Hindu stories depicted in the bas-relief friezes on the first level.  We had to wait in line for about a half an hour to go up very steep steps to the top level.  It was beautiful and somewhat overwhelming because it was so big and there were so many people there.  Here are some pictures.

After exploring Angkor Wat we went to a home hosted lunch in a local village.  At the house, we met a very nice woman, her aunt, and her 7 year old nephew.  The woman was married but her husband was off working, so we didn’t meet him.  Her 2 year daughter was there when we arrived, but she wasn’t too sure about us so the woman’s brother came to get her.  Her parents also lived in the house.  (Married couples usually live with the wife’s parents.  Also the groom’s family has to pay a dowry.  Interestingly the older the woman the lower the dowry.  No comment.) The woman worked in town selling souvenirs and her husband drove a taxi.  We had a delicious lunch and Handed out the presents we brought from home.  I had made a felted bowl for fruit which the nephew promptly put on his head as a hat.  Ann gave them apple butter which they tasted.  The little boy made a face.  Oh well, we tried.

After lunch we went back to the hotel and relaxed for a  while.  We had two temples to visit this afternoon.  First, Ta Prohm Temple, built in the late 12th and early 13th centuries by King Jayavarman VII as a  Buddhist monastery and university.  When it was discovered in 1860, much of it had collapsed.  Recently some of it has been rebuilt.  It’s unique because the trees have grown over and into it.  The movie Tomb Raider was filmed there.

The next temple was Bayon Temple which also built by King Jayavarman VII.  The Bayon’s most distinctive feature is the multitude of serene and smiling stone faces on the many towers which jut out from the upper terrace and cluster around its central peak. The temple has two sets of bas-reliefs, which present a combination of mythological, historical, and mundane scenes.

After visiting the temples we went back to Angkor Wat to sit along the moat and have some wine and local appetizers as we watched the sunset.  The wine was ginseng wine and it was awful.  The appetizers were frogs’ legs (the French learned to eat frogs’ legs from the Cambodians), snake jerky, water buffalo jerky, and peanuts.   I thought the frogs’ legs were good!  A nice 12 year old boy named Dara was trying to sell us postcards and he continued to hang around even after it was clear that no one was going to bite. He told us he wants to be a policeman at Angkor Wat when he grows up.  We all gave him a dollar without taking any post cards and told him to stay in school.

We had dinner at the Siem Reap Brewery.  Afterward everyone went back to the hotel except Vuhta, Dan, Judy and me.  We were off to the night market.  We started by walking Pub Street which had lots of restaurants and bars.  Then we walked into the night market which had lots of souvenirs.  We weren’t there very long.  Looking forward to bed, we took a remork back to the hotel for a well deserved nights sleep.

January 23, 2019 Siem Reap

We started off the morning at the Angkor National Museum which houses many pieces from the local temples.  Vuhta took us around and described some of the highlights and then gave us some time to look around on our own. 

From there we went to Royal Shrine which houses statues of two sisters from Angkor Wat.  The statues have a long history which include being stolen, dumped into the river by the Khmer Rouge and finally being found and given a home in the Royal Shrine.  Devotees took time to purchase turtles, birds and lotus flowers as offerings.  Vuhta purchased some lotus flowers for us. The flower seller showed us how to fold back the petals to prepare the flowers.  We followed the lead of the visitors and left our flowers at the altar as an offering.

Next we had a nice lunch at a local restaurant and returned to the hotel for a little down time.  

That afternoon we went to the Banteay Srei temple, one of the oldest and most beautifully preserved temple sites in Cambodia.  It took us about an hour to get there.  All the roads we traveled throughout Cambodia have been very good.  This one was an exception.  We bumped along through many small villages with people selling things along the road.  

Built in CE 967, Banteay Srei means Citadel of Women and it is recognized as a tribute to the beauty of women.  Although it’s a relatively small temple the carvings were magnificent.  Vuhta recited several Hindu stories which were depicted in the stone.  The stories are detailed recitations about gods, demons and conquests of good vs. evil.  Here are some pictures.  

On the way back we stopped at the house of a family  who makes sugar palm candies.  They have male and female sugar palm trees growing in their yard.  They go up in the trees and cut the flowers from the male and the fruit from the female.  The tree leaks sap from where it was cut.  They collect the sap in bottles. Then they transfer the sap to a large cauldron and cook it for about three hours, stirring it constantly. Once it has thickened they spoon it into molds.  They sell a small jar of candies for $1.  (Cambodia has it own money but most people use dollars.  When you get change it is typically in dollars but they don’t use American coins so if the change is less than a dollar you get the change in local currency.). They also gave us a taste of the palm fruit and another fruit called milk apple.  Everyone really liked the milk apple.  

While on the bus today, Vahta told us that Cambodia is #5 of 180 countries in terms of corruption.  Imagine what they could accomplish if they weren’t at the bottom of the list.  

Next we went to dinner And, almost immediately after being seated the restaurant lost power.  This area loses power frequently so everyone has a generator.  In the recent past Cambodia purchased their power from Thailand.  Today they produce it themselves and it has become much less reliable.  The restaurant got their generator going and everything was fine.  

That evening Ann and I went to the grocery store to get hair conditioner.  I only mention it because I though I would include a picture of the store, it’s clean and very modern.

January 22, 2019 Phnom Penh to Siem Reap

We left the hotel at 8:00 this morning.  Here is a funny notice we found on the desk in our room at the hotel giving the prices of “lost”, aka stolen, items.  We were tempted to spend the $510 for the mattress, but ultimately decided against it.

We headed to Siem Reap and the ancient city of Angkor Wat that morning.  The bus ride is 7 hours, but luckily we have a couple of stops en route.  The ride gave us an opportunity to get to know our guide, Vuhta, a kind, gentle, funny 34 year old Cambodian man.  He didn’t live through the Khmer Rouge, but he has known the hardship associated with that period in history. As a child he almost dropped out of school because he was literally starving.  Luckily his father found a job as a construction supervisor in Siem Reap and thus was able to provide food for his family.  Vutha lost one of his grandfathers to the Khmer Rouge.  

He gave us lots background information.  Cambodia is the size of Oklahoma and has 16 million citizens.  The prime minister has been in power for 34 years.  There was an opposition party for a while, but it has now been eliminated.  The prime minister and his family are worth somewhere been $0.5B and $1B. The prime minister’s son is expected to eventually take over for his father.  

Vuhta talked about education.  Cambodia doesn’t have enough teachers, so children are slotted into one of two sessions a day in primary school, receiving just four hours of school per day.  In lower and upper secondary school there are not enough hours to teach the students the necessary information to pass the graduation exams,  so parents need to pay for supplemental education if they want their children to continue beyond secondary school. Many kids just drop out.  

The medical system is similarly tragic.  They don’t have enough doctors to care for the populace and medical school is very expensive.  Corruption within the system is prevalent, so candidates who do not pass the necessary exams to become a doctor just bribe officials to get their license, further degrading the system.  In effect there are many people impersonating doctors, providing inferior medical treatment to those they serve.

About 45% of the people do not have access to electricity.  The government says they have a plan to bring that number up to 85% in five years, but it is likely just words.  Limited electricity service significantly diminishes Cambodian’s access to information via the internet, fueling government ability to keep people ignorant and keep the current regime in power.   

We passed a lot of rice fields.  80% of the Cambodian population are farmers.  Vuhta explained the process of growing rice.  The farmers lack the technology to make the rice fields as productive as neighboring countries —  the fields in Vietnam yield twice as much rice as the fields in Cambodia.  

Vuhta also talked about Chinese visitors to the country. The government is encouraging Chinese investment in Cambodia, but the Cambodian people don’t like it.  Chinese investment and Chinese people are effectually flooding the country.  They are buying property (they can’t own land but they can own buildings) and, as a result, drive up the price of housing and services, displacing poorer Cambodians.   Furthermore, the Chinese have been upping the price of some of the most lucrative Thai sea coast areas to build casinos.  Cambodians can’t afford to visit these places any longer and are thus being shut out from enjoying what was once a national treasure.  Cambodians are very concerned about the amount of power the Chinese have and the leverage they use to impact their people.

There were about eight million land mines placed in Cambodia by the Khmer Rouge and the Vietnamese.  Today approximately two million remained buried.  The government projects that it will take about ten years to clear them, making a walk in the jungle a potentially lethal experience.  Vietnam ultimately invaded Cambodia and drove the Khmer Rouge out of power.  During the Vietnamese reign of the eastern provinces they sent young Cambodian boys into the forest to clear the land mines.  We saw a number of people who were missing limbs as a result. Today, while that land has been returned to Cambodia, the Cambodians remain suspicious of Vietnam’s territorial intentions.

So while all of that is grim, it seems that most people have enough food to eat and shelter over their heads.  Better than some places we’ve been.  

We made several stops during our ride.  The first one was Skuon, a village famous for tarantulas.  We pulled up to a woman’s house.  She has four children and selling tarantulas helps support her family.  The Cambodia people have learned to eat quite a few things that seem gross to us including snakes, scorpions, and silk worms, out of necessity.  It’s evidence of what they have been through.  

Tarantulas live in holes in the ground where they feed on the roots of trees.  Together we walked to the backyard,  she found a hole and started digging.  It wasn’t long before she had a tarantula in hand. He was feisty and ready to fight.  She picked him up from the back and clipped his fangs with a pair of pliers.  She has been bitten twice and she told us that the bite turns into a red, painful bump for several days.  Allison, in our group, held the tarantula.  We took the tarantula back to her porch area where she cleaned several of them in water.  Then she killed them by pinching their bellies.  Next she mixed together a little salt, pepper, garlic, and chicken powder, coated the tarantulas with the mixture and put them in hot oil to fry them.  Preparation time was five minutes. While she was cooking, Rick got a good laugh by saying, in his best Julia Child voice, “first you take the tarantula . . .”  Everyone except me tried at least a leg.  Some people ate the bellies too.  They all said it tasted pretty good.  I couldn’t bring myself to try one.

Later along the road Vutha stopped the bus to buy lotus plants.  He showed us how to peel the plant to find the seeds.  I tasted one of these, it was OK!?

Next stop, a village that specializes in stone carvings.  We stopped for only about 5 minutes.  Here are pictures.

We drove on to our lunch spot and had a very nice lunch on the shore of a lake.

Back on the bus our next stop was the ancient bridge of Kampong Klein. The bridge was built in the 12th century during the reign of King Jayavarman VII (CE 1181 –1220). Until recently the main traffic in the area was still crossing this bridge.   Nowadays the bridge is closed to trucks, busses and cars — only pedestrian and light traffic can cross the bridge. We walked across the bridge while our bus drove over the new  bridge to meet us on the other side.

Our last stop along the road was to buy kralan from one of many women with roadside carts.  These women fill hollowed out bamboo with a mixture of sticky rice, beans, coconut milk, and sugar.  Then they stuff banana leaves on either end of the tube to seal it.  Finally they roast the tube over hot coals.  To eat the mixture you remove a banana leaf from one end, peel the tube away like a banana and eat the rice with your fingers.  It was tasty!!

Eventually we arrived at our hotel.  We had a little downtime before dinner so Rick and I walked to the supermarket next door and got some wine.  We had a little cocktail hour with Ann in our room and moved to a restaurant across the street for dinner.

We are all very tired in the evenings a hit the hay fairly early.  These OAT folks really keep us moving!

 

 

 

January 21, 2019 Phnom Penh

This morning we started the day by going to the Killing Fields of Choeunk Ek.  During the years that the Khmer Rouge was governing, 1975 until 1979, 1.7 million citizens out of a total population of 8 million were beaten and killed.  Almost all of societies  intellectuals, often their entire family, were killed because they were considered a potential threat to the government. If you wore glasses you were considered a potential intellectual and were killed.  Doctors, lawyers, the people that essentially inspired and moved the Cambodian civilization  forward were subjected to brutal torture and death.  By the end of their rule in 1979, there were only 45 doctors left in the entire country, more than half of which proceeded to leave the country.  The torture took places at Tuol Sleng prison, referred to as S21, where they were brutalized for 2-4 months prior to being sent to Choeun En.  They gave up whatever accurate or inaccurate information they could about friends and neighbors during their daily beatings, nail pulling, water boarding and hanging and were offered a better life in a new location for their compliance.  A brutal death and a mass grave in the killing fields was their ultimate reward.  

The killing fields were originally an ancient Chinese cemetery, some of the headstones still remain.  The government didn’t want to waste bullets so the soldiers had to get “creative”, so the guards beat, bludgeoned and killed their victims.  Over 17,000 people were killed at this site, one of hundreds throughout the country.  Eighty-seven of one hundred twenty-nine mass graves at Choeun En have been excavated.  The bones were placed in a shrine erected at the site.  Eventually it was determined it would be best to leave the remainder of the graves in peace, as they remain today.  Needless to say it was a very emotional experience to learn about this place of death.  It was equally, if not more difficult, for Alex, our guide, whose heritage was entwined with this place.

Here are some pictures.  

After the killing fields we went to the Tuol Sleng prison or Tuol Sleng Genocide Museum as it is now called.  It was a former high school.  Ann, Pam, and I didn’t want to go into the prison so we waited outside in a sidewalk cafe where we had delicious lime smoothies.  Rick said it wasn’t too graphic, but the fact remains that thousands of likely innocent Cambodians were subjected to brutal torture, facing imminent death while here.  Only 7 people survived the prison.  Three of the survivors were there, each selling books about their experiences.

On leaving we went to lunch and returned to the hotel afterward.  We had the option of relaxing in the hotel or going to the Russian market.  Three of us, Allison, Judy and I decided we wanted to go.  We took a remork. 

Named for its popularity among Russian expats during the 1980’s, the market is known for selling traditional handicrafts, antiques, and everyday goods.  They had everything from clothes to shoes, meat to seafood, automotive parts to kitchen equipment, restaurants to beauty and nail salons.   Allison and Judy bought some cashews and Judy got her fanny pack fixed.

The driver had waited for us so we easily found our way back.  It was fun to be riding in a remork through the streets of Phnom Penh!

We had one more site visit for the day, the Royal Palace.  The actual palace where the King lives is closed to visitors, but we saw the throne room were he was coronated as well as several other buildings constructed with typical Thai architecture.

On the site are several stupas which contain the ashes of past kings.  

The Silver Pagoda is also in the royal palace complex.  The Silver Pagoda draws its name from the more than 5,000 silver tiles that cover the floor in the temple.  It’s home to numerous Buddhist artifacts, including the Emerald Buddha.  There were no pictures allowed inside 😒.

Alex told us several jokes today.  None of them were very good, but his face really lit up while he was telling them as we rode along on the bus. 

We went back to the hotel for a little downtime before dinner.  I tried to nap but couldn’t.  Rick enjoyed views of the city from the roof bar.  At dinner we discovered that Alex had a girlfriend.  He was very cute and wanted us to meet her, so he called her and told her to meet us at the hotel.  She was there when we returned.  They were very cute together.  Unfortunately I didn’t get a picture.  We also met Vuhta that evening, our guide for the journey to Siem Reap.  

January 20, 2019 Bangkok to Phnom Penh

HAPPY BIRTHDAY RICK!!!  🎉🎂🍾❤️🥳

Today was also a travel day.  At breakfast we met the rest of our group.  There are eight of us on the pre-trip to Cambodia.  Everyone seems very nice.  We were picked up by a different OAT representative and taken to the airport.  All very easy!

The flight was uneventful and we were met in Phnom Penh by our new guide Alex.  While we drove into the city Alex told us a little about himself and his family.  His parents were married by soldiers during the Khmer Rouge period.  They didn’t know each other but the soldier asked if they wanted to get married.  You always say yes to soldiers in that day, so they got married.  Most folks lost at least one family member during the reign of the Khamer Rouge.  Alex’s family lost four, three uncles and an aunt. His parents currently owns a bike shop that doubles as an apartment for him.  Here’s a picture of Alex.

We arrived at our first stop, Wat Phnom, a Buddhist temple that was originally built in 1372 by Lady Penh, a wealthy woman who helped establish the capital.  It’s Buddhist temple with a lot of ancestor worship mixed in.  The temple itself was very chaotic.  There were people offering fake money to be burned for their ancestors.  People also offered meat to their ancestors by placing it in the mouth of a stone tiger statue.

Here’s a video of the music at the temple.

There was a large lawn clock that ran on water at the same site.

After touring the temple Alex bought a local delicacy, a cooked duck embryo, and offer to let us try it. The street vendor had a pot of hot water with about half a dozen eggs in it.  Alex cracked the top of the shell and used a tiny spoon (which the vendor cleaned by swishing it in the hot water) to scoop out chunks of duck embryo.  Only one person in our group tried it.  No it wasn’t me 🤪.  She said it tasted like chicken livers.

Here are some of the other offerings available at the temple.

From there we went on to the hotel and checked in.  That evening we went to the Foreign Correspondent Club for dinner.    We took a remork-moto, a cart on the back of a motorcycle, to the restaurant.

We had a very nice dinner along the edge of the Mekong River.  We toasted Rick’s birthday.